When women give men advice…

So I’ve been thinking about this for a couple of weeks even though it’s old news at this point…

Apparently – every single time a woman gives men advice about how to approach her, she’s telling men what to do, planning to create laws against approaching women in elevators, and has an entire army behind her to force them into submission!!! ha ha.

Of course that’s not the reality but there are a lot of men who just can’t handle advice coming from women – even if it’s advice that might actually help him navigate the dating scene. She said, “Word for the WISE.” – so the advice was clearly not for shit-stains and men who only have two brain cells that are fighting each other…

Okay, so to understand what I’m talking about, search “elevatorgate” and just LOOK at the SHIT STORM that was created out of a woman simply stating that she did not appreciate being approached by a man in an elevator alone, at 4AM for “coffee in his room” after an atheist convention (this is a guy she didn’t even have a conversation with previously). The shit storm was so incredible, some men were even trying to claim that this poor poor REJECTED man on the elevator, REALLY just wanted coffee (HA HA! EVERYONE in the US knows what that is code for, yet a lot of men will still insist that coffee at 4AM is JUST coffee). I think if he JUST wanted coffee – he would have invited her anywhere BUT his hotel room…

Isn’t that pathetic? Count the busted up egos, seriously – just count them (to get the most hits, search on youtube). There were a lot of people defending the woman in the elevator (Rebecca Watson) but those numbers PALED in comparison to the multitudes of MEN who uploaded videos whining about her advice. The irony of it all, is that a lot of them were telling her she doesn’t have the right to tell them not to approach women alone in elevators… Really? You are going to get angry for a woman giving advice but then turn around and give her advice?! (SO TYPICAL)

Another typical thing I noticed about this – was that a lot of men who made videos against Rebecca Watson used the ole, “Well not ALL women are threatened by men who approach them alone in elevators at 4 AM.” – the classic – pitting women against each other as a form of manipulation. It’s really on par with the type of men who are like, “Women in porn have anal, so why won’t you?” or “Some women like watching porn with their boyfriends, so why won’t you?” Basically – men using the women who reinforce male entightlement to try an manipulate women into doing what men want (it happens most in sexual terms) – even AFTER the woman they are attempting to manipulate has made it clear what they like or don’t like (and I’ve HAD a guy use this tactic to try and get me to have anal with him – when I made it clear over and over that it was a no go this was 15 yrs ago tho)… I’m sure men don’t appreciate their girlfriends saying things like, “Well THEY are getting married, he bought HER a diamond ring, so why can’t you do it for me!” (the tactic is so infantile and something that never escapes my notice).

Men know that women (insecure) are often competitive for the “coveted” cock and they’ll use this to squeeze individuality out of women (not that I’m too stupid to fall for it). Women who watch porn with their boyfriends or have anal are the “cool” chicks man, like why the hell wouldn’t you WANT to be just like them! They give men ERECTIONS (what OTHER compliment could a woman ask for?!?!), so they must like totally be AWESOME! (I hope ppl know I’m being sarcastic). And you KNOW when you’ve had a run in with women who BELIEVE this cock and bull… Because they are the types that brag about having anal sex or watching porn (and they’ll insert this into conversations at random) – ESPECIALLY around a group of men…They think it’s something they deserve a pat on the back for. ick

I’m willing to bet my right arm (and I’m right handed – unless we are talkin’ tennis) that men use this shit all the time to get their “virgin” female partners to have PIV… Like “My best friend’s girlfriend is doing it…”

As soon as a guy says “Well such and such woman does it” and it’s something he’s trying to get you to do – that you don’t want to do… RUN FOR THE HILLS! The only thing men like that respect – are their erections.

Another thing I was thinking about in this situation…What if she HAD gone back to his hotel room and he raped her? You know, just as well as I do, she would have been blamed (by the same men who HATE her for rejecting elevator boy and giving men advice) for being stupid enough to go back to some strangers hotel room… They would have ASSUMED that her going back to his room was an invitation into her vagina or asshole.

My last point is simply – I think RWs advice about approaching women was GOOD advice. I don’t care if some women don’t mind being approached that way – they probably would still prefer being approached in a less secluded place… And what cracks me up about these foolish men is that her advice actually might help them get sex more often! ha ha. And isn’t THAT the truth? Men would RATHER sabatage themselves before taking advice from a lowly woman.

In closing – Some guy told me the other day that smoking is bad for me, how DARE he tell me what to do! He doesn’t speak for ALL smokers! My ex’s grandmother started smoking when she was 10 and she’s now 98!

3 Responses to “When women give men advice…”

  1. ke legris (@legriske) Says:

    Like everyone on Rebecca Watson’s side you are missing the point.

    For a about the previous two month Rebecca had been on a role complaining about sexism in the atheist community. She went to conferences and steered the conversation all the time to how horrible the atheist men were and never gave any real evidence (she cited a few emails, but they were mostly from religious trolls). Time and time again she asserted that atheist conferences were hell for women, like some kind of sexist gulag, never really giving other evidence, just claiming that other unnamed women agreed with her.

    So people were very hungry for an actual example of the “misogyny” Rebecca kept ranting about so they could debate the situation, and when if finally came it was utterly pathetic. Of course she got jumped all over.

    • truthvscompliance Says:

      Are you going to address any of my points at all? How does the information you’ve provided attack my points at all? How does it invalidate the specific situation I speak of? PROVE to me that a bunch of men didn’t act irrational about a little piece of advice, otherwise, take a hike.

    • truthvscompliance Says:

      Okay – so I provided proof for you in my post. Isn’t it obvious? Just not being able to take advice from a woman is proof of the misogyny most atheist men feel. Lets be honest here – if that advice had come from a “fellow” male atheist – there would have not been any outrage. I KNOW there would not have been.

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